Hello there! Good Sunday evening. How has 2015 been for you so far?
I am amazed that I have kept this #YourTurnChallange of posting on this blog 7 days in a row. It had been in unexpectedly exhilarating week to be able to stick to a promise to myself and following through with this challenge.
Today I want to share with you one of my favourite activity and to me it is also an amazing parenting tool: knitting.
My earliest and fondest memory on knitting was from my kindergarden friend’s mother. She was a ferocious and prolific knitter. She would knit a whole kids sized sweater in a day. My favourite thing to do when I go to play at their house was to sit next to her and just watch her hands and needles go. I loved and cherished every sweater she made for me and I always felt sad whenever I got too big for them.
Not until after I became a mother, I learned to look at knitting as something outside than just a craft, that it is more than just something to do for grannies and people who have extra time to have a hobby. Knitting now has become a nurturing and healing activity. I never realize that something seem so trivial can be so powerful.
HOW DO YOU HAVE TIME TO KNIT WHEN YOU ARE TAKING CARE OF YOUNG CHILDREN?
I know right?
After I woke up to the fact that children (as young as from birth) do not need to be “entertained”, I took to knitting as my way to have a little time to sit down in between changing diapers, cleaning the house, manage everyday household chores, feeding and putting the little ones to bed etc.
But mostly I love knitting because actually has these amazing qualities:
1. To show (especially the in the fast paced first world) that some things are made by hand.
2. To illustrate that whatever the end result may be, it takes time.
3. To demonstrate perseverance.
4. To instill virtues like patience and delayed gratification.
5. An opportunity to show children that joy is in the process, in the doing of.
6. And if you are knitting something for your kids, they will feel loved, valued and cherished in ways that buying them a toy can never convey.
KNITTING AND TANTRUMS GO HAND IN HAND
I must say I have knitting to thank during many episodes of toddler tantrums. It depends on the need of my boys (whether they need to be held or not), when they are expressing their huge feelings, I often sit down beside them and would start knitting. Instead of trying to talk to them or ask them a ton of questions, I just keep steady, grounded, knit and wait patiently until they have let it all out. I would remember to breathe deeply during these episodes while knitting and send out a kind, loving and gentle energies towards the whirlwind beside me. Knitting would help me stay strong, focus and anchored for my children, which is the what they truly need when they are in despair or confusion.
THE SWEATER THAT KEEPS ON GIVING
With all that being said, I have this one sweater that I have been knitting over and over again that I want to share with you today. It is a classic raglan top-down sweater, pattern designed by a wonderful Canadian designer Jane Richmond. To me it is great for both girl or boy.
This had been the sweater that both my boys have worn day in and day out, in all four seasons (I always use the same wool yarn) in the past 3 years. When it comes to dressing, especially with children, I like to keep things simple and options minimal. So both boys have only a few pairs of pants each, a couple of basic wool under layers and 4-5 plain-jane short and long-sleeved T shirts for the rest of the year.
This sweater goes on top of every outfit and we layer up/down with winter jackets, vests, hats and or scarfs according to the seasons. This pattern is so easy to follow, it is so rewarding for our whole family.
If you are looking for something more than a scarf or hat, maybe you can try this sweater on for size?
Have a great week. Until next post.
Much love and warmth,